Originally Posted by Ceoli
And I think good relationship skills are good relationship skills regardless of whether they are learned in a monogamous or poly context. To think that only traditional relationships can teach those skills is a very limiting view for myself.
This has nothing to do with relationship skills, Ceoli. It's about people not getting to experience what the vast majority of people around them are. Some people won't care, but most will.
It's about wondering if the grass is greener on the other side because, like it or not, that is where most people do and will spend their time.
If you've been on both sides you can determine what is best for you.