Hi. I'll go by mg to stay on the safe side. I am 28 year old Cali transplant in NYC. I've been in a ltr with my SO for about 5 years. We talked about opening up our relationship for the first three years and ACTUALLY did it in the last two. It's been a rocky start but we are hanging in there. I have been a lurker for awhile but recently decided to maybe speak up. I've been going through some things that you all would probably be able to offer good advice about. Figured before I started with the questions I should at least say hi. So HI!