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Old 12-14-2011, 06:15 PM
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All I have to say about when to have sex, is wait until it feels right to YOU and don't feel pressured by anyone else.

As for the poly vs mono thing - stop painting yourself into a box, drop the labels. Not wanting to have casual sex doesn't mean you aren't poly nor does it mean you are specifically mono, it just means that you don't want casual sex. It almost sounds like "committing" to a specific relationship style is stressing you out. If you do get in a relationship, then you will need to discuss these things with your partner, but until then trust your instincts and just be you, even if that means your mono one month and poly the next, etc.
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