Well, I don't know if I would say the relationship is ALL about sex, but is seems it certainly started off that way maybe at least from her perspective. It makes me wonder WHY he would risk losing our relationship, which he claims is SOO important to him, in order to be with this girl who only wanted to have sex with him?? I asked him that and I dont' feel I got a satisfactory answer.....something about how he had decided to move ahead with her and given the fact that he had already TOLD me he was going to move ahead with her there shouldn't have been a problem....
What I see as the problem, though, is that he risked what I was led to believe was a deep, connected love with me in order to put his penis in a girl who didn't really care about him. And he KNEW she didn't really care.