For me, though I rarely post, I find that leaving pages open sparks very meaningful conversations between myself and my primary. He hasn't signed up or posted but he often browses on here. I think that it is always refreshing to see other points of view even if they often contain struggles. Even if they don't post it can be helpful...currently going through a breakup has seen me sitting here reading posts constantly to get perspective. Also there is nothing that I could say here that I wouldn't say in person...
