Thread: Falling in love
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Old 12-13-2011, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted by polyq4 View Post
A lot of people on the board here talk about doing everything slowly....
Yeah, well, shit, you can proceed slowly in a relationship even if you already love that person. I see moving slowly as keeping a level head, pacing oneself in terms of commitments and entanglements, not necessarily stopping yourself from loving - how does that work, anyway? I can't do it, LOL.

I love easily and quickly, too. I fall in love a little bit with strangers several times a day. If one's heart is open... love happens. It's a beautiful thing!
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia "

An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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