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Old 12-13-2011, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
Um, yes, obviously. I prefer to think before I speak, no need to be mean about it. That happened last week, before I started posting here again. Then today he happened to bring that up and that's what I meant in my last post by "here we are." As in, it's happening, the conversation I've been so nervous about.
I wasn't being mean, I was giving you a nudge. It didn't come across in writing as well as it sounded in my head, lol. I had hoped calling you "hon" there at the end would have conveyed my "tough love" tone. Sorry about that. But really, good for you both that the talk is happening. Be strong and keep us posted.
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