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Old 12-13-2011, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted by daisyboo View Post
I just keep functioning because of our sons, but even they catch me crying and I can't tell them what is going on because it would destroy them.
How old are they? It wouldn't destroy them for you to tell them you and their father are working things out and it's making you sad. They don't have to know details but why keep everything bottled up?
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