Originally Posted by grim64
Hi and yes i take on all you points for sure.....
would I feel ok about a guy living with us......no i wouldn't, but the thought of a relationship between my wife and another guy is not a No.
This forum may not have answers because there are no right and wrong answers, but thanks.
Ok so my answer to this is I don't think it's fair of you to number one move this girl in with you until you would feel the same way about a guy moving in. The one thing I feel in being in a poly relationship is practicing being in the other persons shoes.
And secondly as much as you are going through nre right now with this very young lady, it will wear off, as well have you had discussions with your wife in detail about this? What has she said?