Originally Posted by vampiresscammy
don't look to those from your past, theres always going to be too much baggage there, and to be honest with one another, you'll never know for sure if it bothers you to see each other with someone if they're someone from your past, there is bound to be hurt/uinsecurities/issues abound with past interests
I can't agree with this view. It seems to me that if the husband has the right to choose who he wants to include in his life intimately that the wife ought to have the same freedom. I don't think it fair to allow him all of the freedom of choice and her none of that same freedom.