Originally Posted by qanda
compromise is part of life and love so why should one person's needs be more important than the needs of the other? aren't both important - or am i just being very selfish?
Cheating is not compromising. Cheating is hurtful, decietful and will scar you and anyone it touches.
You are being selfish.
I was selfish once....for a long time. I'm scarred and it follows me into my new relationship with Redpepper. I can't offer any stronger words of advice other than salvage your dignitiy, self worth and spare others pain...get out.