Yes, it I find that she is still doing it after our talk about it, then it will be over for me, and if F wants to continue to take the risk of dating her, then I dont want the relationship to be around my children. Or her to be around my children. I do have friends that smoke, but my kids never see them. Since F lives with me, his choice of lover has to be ok with me on my children's level. My children see T a lot right now and our kids play together often, She's too big a part of our life to risk her being caught up in legal troubles, especially in the county where F works, which is where she goes out most of the time.
- For the pursuit of happiness, not the sit around and wait for happiness -
Jen - bi female
John (Juntas)- husband
M - John's girlfriend