I think Rift meant that if F wants to spend time with her, period, it has to be outside of her home. Like, T is no longer welcome in her house, smoking or no.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.