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Old 12-09-2011, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
I think that asking to know about a woman before he sleeps with her so you can give your two cents is perfectly reasonable and not too limiting at all. After all, you share your body with this man on a regular basis, if he unknowingly sleeps with someone who's hiding disease or drama up her sleeve it will badly affect you!
It isn't too limiting? I'm relieved you think that. Somehow in my head it still is a bit too much, if what he wants is to hook up with someone he just met and not form too much of a bond with her (this isn't really the case, but I guess sometimes he would like to do just that), so I would be denying him the exact thing he wants.

Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
As for your concern about people thinking he's cheating on you, why don't you accompany him to the bar a few times and make your approval clear, like come over and kiss him on the cheek while he's chatting up a girl, wink at her, tell her he's a catch and say "I'm heading home now to skype with my girlfriend but you two have a wonderful evening, k?" Then grin at him and say "text me if you're staying out late, handsome."

That would send the message to the town loud and clear, but also might be a liiittle more out and proud than you're ready to be?
Haha, I love that! I could actually see myself do that in an ideal world. But yeaaah... A little bit too out and proud like you guessed. But that attitude is something to think about, even if I wouldn't say that in the situation. Then again, if there are rumours to be spread, I'd prefer them to be about us being open than us cheating on each other.
Me: bi female in my 30's
Soon living with Hank (partner), Dahlia (Hank's partner), Eddie (Dahlia's partner) and rory (ex/friend)

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