So, I told Davis about my crush on Jay. It was anticlimactic. He hadn't noticed anything, thought maybe the flirting was in my head (and he may well be right... some kind of brief but intense hormonal surge or something??), didn't want to hear details but also didn't seem at all upset by it. We had a very nice evening, played cards, drank wine, and watched a movie.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.