What concerns me is that you so often got turned down for sex by your bf, and now that youve found a more responsive partner, your bf is approaching you for sex! Too little, too late, sounds like. You got tired of a lukewarm partner... yet you know how it felt to be turned down, so you feel guilty for being on the other side now.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, poly, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 37