Originally Posted by redsirenn
2) This sucks. Not the relationship - that is great. But I just want some more peace!!! So, then I realized my biggest fear is losing myself in this relationship - spending all that time working thru stuff, and getting distracted from my music, art, school, friends, etc.
This is something I was kind of confused about. Isn't all this *part* of the relationship? I don't see how you can keep this compartmentalized from your relationship and say one is hard but the other is great.