After 20 years of marriage? You sound so sanguine about it. Did your wife move out of your shared home and in with her bf after just knowing him a month or so? Eeek. NRE beast is really driving her.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 42, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships