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Old 12-06-2011, 12:21 AM
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How new is this relationship between you and this woman? I just have a sense that you are in the throes of NRE (New Relationship Energy) and being tossed around a bit by the excitement and newness of it all, so her putting the brakes on seems much more dramatic and feels more of a slap because of that. Do whatever you can to get your feet back on level ground, breathe, and try to step out of the emotions to see things with a bit more objectivity, if you can.
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