Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
He was NOT impressed with the poly thing when it was him and I talking-but reading here has totally impressed upon him how HIS attitude was making things harder for himself and how changing how he dealt with things could make things run smoothly. It also showed him how other people we know are screwing up their monogomous relationships!
This is one of the reasons FOR inviting him (husband) in my mind - I'm sure he's never had a conversation about even the concept of poly, much less as a part of his own life with anyone but me (and he had a kneejerk reaction "I've never been interested in that"). I know that many people I know would think I am screwing up my monogamous relationship - but my love for both is strong and something's gotta give - I don't want this to be tragic. I don't believe it has to be.
So now I have to figure out when and how I'm going to ask.