It has been "reconfigured" a couple of times! In fact, just today we were discussing the triads we've been part of, including one long-term where we all had a big house together. At the heart of the family is a married couple with 5 kids (one adopted). Currently we are in a V. I am straight and she is bi ("mostly lesbian") and has a girlfriend.
We lived in Rochester together in 1997-1999, and I grew up in Henrietta and lived in the Rochester area until 1994. I was actively involved in the RPG community, and often worked at Rudicon. I was also in theatre, and worked at GeVa.
It is nice to officially meet you!