Originally Posted by rosyrump
Really? I've always thought it was easier to pick up chicks. Men don't want to piss on another mans property. Been searchin for more love and a dp for as long as I can remember, but can't attract a guy to save my life!
SeventhCrow's advice is excellent. Pursue something you feel passionate about, and let that passion shine in you. That is very, very attractive.
Also: is it possible you're overthinking the situation? My experience has been that most guys think most girls are plenty attractive most of the time. Of course, that's just my experience and your mileage may vary.
Make sure you're giving off an "available" vibe (be friendly and approachable).
Let it be known that you are open to meeting new friends and lovers.
Make an effort to show interest in other people.
Good luck to you, SisterWoman. I wish you joy, success and happy hunting!