Originally Posted by morrisslig
I know, it doesn't help that my wife is now showing signs that she is happy that he didn't follow through. So I am sitting here utterly confused and feeling foolish. Now I have to wonder if he was 'playing' me/us and this will be the hot topic at his work place.
Sorry to hear he stood you up, that sucks. If you're feeling negative about your wife's reaction, talk to her about it. Make sure she really is ok with entering into a poly relationship and make sure she is really ok with you seeing a guy.