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Old 12-05-2011, 03:39 AM
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Originally Posted by morrisslig
Well he stood me up ... Now I have to wonder if he was 'playing' me/us and this will be the hot topic at his work place.
Why would this be fodder for gossip if he was simply invited to hang out with the two of you over the weekend? I had the idea from what you posted that it was left as a pretty casual invitation, not a promise of sex or something like that, because you were trying to be careful with the work connection, and I thought all the wondering and nervousness about flirting and sex was in your own head.

Originally Posted by morrisslig View Post
She went down and directly asked him if he wanted to go out with us this weekend. He said yes and took our number.
Was there more to the invitation than that? If she made it sound like a kind of proposition, that would make things weird (and possibly why he chickened out). But if it was just, "hey you wanna hang out'" don't worry too much.
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