Originally Posted by secretposter
I know this. I know that all the rules are being broken on this one. This I know.
Fine, then no flak, not condemnation or anything like that.
But as the husband of mennodaughter let me make the options clear:
You can either
1) come clean, NOW--before the next time you even think of your 'friend'. It will hurt your wife, it will hurt you, and it may destroy your marriage...it may be too late.
2) you can wait, hedge, lie, wait for her to find out. That will destroy your wife, destroy you, and almost undoubtedly destroy your marriage.
I trust you didn't chose to be where you are; but here you and it is time to make a decision.....which will you pick?