Maybe try setting aside time individually with your other partners for a date. Just something out of the house, quiet dinner and a walk or even some light jazz music that you can get close on the dance floor. I have never been in your exact situation but all relationships suffer from this. It is everyday life. I have been there. I have found that sometimes the fire is dwindling on their end and when I do this, its like pouring gasoline on the flame. Take a week to plan something out for your partners and give it a shot.
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