@Nyc - I also don't see dreams as signs I need to follow, but I do find that I can figure things out about where I'm at sometimes by paying attention to them. And yeah, still haven't said anything to Davis... maybe soon.
@Fuchka - I've definitely noticed that tendency in myself, of falling for the people closest to my partner. I think you're right on the money with this, "when you feel abundant love for someone, you may emotionally "net in" the other romances/bromances etc of theirs." I look forward to hearing more of your story.
I'm not concerned by it all at this stage. I've had many many crushes in my life, just not so much in recent years, which is what makes this one more noticeable...
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.