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Old 12-02-2011, 05:04 AM
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Be honest with him right from the start. No one likes feeling like they've been deceived. Just say, "Hey, you seem like a cool guy and I'd like to see where this goes. You should know, I have a partner, X, she and I have been together for __ years. We just recently decided to open up our relationship, she actually encouraged me to get to know you better." Then answer any questions and clear up any misconceptions from there.
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Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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