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Old 12-01-2011, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by OpenandCountry View Post
I gave him this week (it's only a week), and I asked him if we could work on the relationship between all three of us more. I think part of the problem is my mother-in-law...she always makes him feel insecure and unsure of himself...
Well, then, wouldn't you naturally want to stand beside him, to nurture and support him when she's around? Sounds like a time when he needs his partner. I think you and your bf need to be a little more flexible.
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