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Old 12-01-2011, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by IsntLifeFun View Post
If he finds someone that he clicks with, and hopefully all of us click with, then so much the better. If she is or isn't interested in sex with some or all of us, doesn't really matter, but I wouldn't want someone to be scared off by knowing what's going on and it's possibilities.
Well, it would be his relationship so let him worry about it.

I think it's fine that you came here to ask for tips to pass along to him, but... I think this thread is getting a bit weird if it's all speculation on how and who your metamour dates and what your hopes for that person are. Seems a little controlling. I mean, he might find someone who makes him happy but doesn't want much interaction with either of you. Does he know about this forum? Maybe he should be asking the questions.
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