So, She moves in next weekend. Z is with his dad for several months.
There is no solid plan on what she does when he wants me to stay over except maybe "she sleeps on the couch". Her only social interaction that I am aware of is a Tuesday night thing (with a social group that deliberately excluded me ). So it seems I get to see him only on specific, very rigidly scheduled times. And even then, our privacy is not assured.
All I get from him is "can we please just try this and see if it works and stop stressing?"
Oh, and I overheard her telling him what he is "allowed" to have in his kitchen.
I am so afraid that we're not going to make it to our 1 year anniversary (2 weeks away).