She definitely sounds like a cowgirl, if she's upset that you and he still want to repair things and move forward.
You might want to show your bf this thread, if he doesn't mind forums like this. I don't think he's really understanding your perspective.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein