Originally Posted by ladyjools
i don't think i was ever in the place where i had those restrictions,
and so it is hard for me to understand them im more curious as to why that would be needed.
Now I understand
And I don't mean to be anything but curious but didn't you have a thread which dealt with your desire for your other lover to restrict getting involved with anyone else until you settle into your relationship? To some people that restriction would be totally unacceptable and would be hard to understand. See what I am saying? This is merely a matter of perspective...not judgement.