Originally Posted by BigGuy
It seems to me that these are trust building requests. In other words, you are trying to find out if is she going to do what she says she is going to do?
Change can be scary, and can make anybody with an emotional investment cringe. This is an area of your relationship in which she has not yet had the opportunity to earn your trust.
I don't think these are unreasonable requests for the beginning start of a new relationship.
I agree with the BigGuy. Once she has shown you that she respects your concerns/boundaries/feelings and needs, and this experience shows itself a good one for all involved, you may not feel the need for reassurance quite as much.