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Old 11-06-2009, 05:53 PM
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i just would hate to give up the possibility to be spontanious!

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As long as "being spontaneous" is an accepted practice within your relationship then that is great! I think for most, the idea of "spontaneity" is akin to communicating after the fact. Especially in new experiences with poly I think communication before the fact is extremely important.
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