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Old 11-30-2011, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
To me, love means you want your partner to be happy. Love does not mean controlling your partner so that you don't have to experience any icky feelings. Everyone experiences icky feelings, and everyone must learn to overcome those feelings in and of themselves... Not by controlling the uncontrollable world around them, but by controlling their own behaviours and thought processes.
Brilliantly put!
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