I would wonder what it was about if I was given a curfew in my ESTABLISHED relationships now. But we are talking beginnings and helping partners feel comfortable. Out of respect a discussion on checking in and what time I will be home is perfectly acceptable and I wouldn't see this as being treated as a child at all. If my husband thought I was treating as a child for wanting to know where he is and when he will be home, I would be very hurt and concerned that there were bigger issues going on that warrent far more discussion.
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