a pleasure to meet you.
I know. I've always found it uterly perplexing why other's have carved it into such a stark black/white choice...as though no other desirable variation could exist.
I'm just reading the glossary and definitions. There's a whole established language for the diversity of polyamory... don't get me wrong, it's never worried me that I didn't have a set of words to describe 'where I'm at' romance-wise... that I feel that way is all the legitamacy I ever needed. But it'll be super-helpful in future convos and being able to research 'my community'.
I can just write the keywords down and tell curious folk to google it.
How did you find your way here? I'd love to hear something of your journey nycindie