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Old 11-29-2011, 11:42 PM
AnotherConfused AnotherConfused is offline
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If she says it's fine for the two of you to be friends, then can you do so just through emails and phone calls for a while? That way she can't get into the middle of your time with him, and she won't have to worry about things getting physical. You can still be close friends by sharing your thoughts and stories and advice back and forth. I have weekly phone calls with one man in my life (partly because he lives out of town, partly because I can do it when my husband isn't with me so he doesn't feel like I'm taking time away from him) and it has helped us maintain a loving closeness in spite of only seeing each other in person a few times a year (and rarely alone).
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