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Old 11-29-2011, 05:57 PM
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Because I can't imagine the friendship with her getting better, it would have to become worse if it changed.
I'm not saying this is a boundary you ought to drop, I just wanted to give a shout out to the idea that there's usually a third option. If something can't become better that doesn't mean it has to become worse by changing -- it can instead become different but equally good.
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