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Old 11-28-2011, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Phy View Post
I have to say, that we never really discussed any boundaries. I don't know why this is the case, but there never seemed to be a need for that. ... It would have felt really unnatural to me to set up restrictions for my relationships. ... there are no rules or boundaries around at the time and we all feel comfortable with our situation at the moment.
Phy, haven't you all agreed to specific nights that are designated for you to sleep either with Lin or Sward? Would that be considered boundaries, I wonder?
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