I can be a sub through and through with a partner, but that doesn't mean that they will be topping me in anyway other than sexually, and I haven't experienced it outside of the bedroom. So I didn't automatically assume that sexually submissive means relationally submissive from what ChloeJane said.
I know some relationships have both, but as some don't, I didn't take it as a given as she didn't specify.
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.
Last edited by Anneintherain; 11-28-2011 at 10:13 PM.