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Old 11-28-2011, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by tigrrrlily View Post
Correct, I have no way of checking a DADT beyond trust. I think I made a good call and if I was wrong, then he's cheated on me too and I'll be rightfully well-pissed.
I totally agree with this. I see nothing wrong with trusting a person who seems trustworthy, it is not your responsibility to check.

I would never do DADT in my relationships, I'm too much of a fan of openness. I can imagine some kind of a relationship with a person who has that arrangement with their partner. Though maybe I would be careful with how involved I become, and I would back off if I started to feel like it's too hurtful to be a secret.
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