Personally I'm not big on ever feeling uncomfortable in a situation that I know little about. Call me traditional, but I think I would prefer to know that the wife is good with it. I have tried the idea out of a DADT and it came with all kinds of shit hitting the fan when I found out that the boundry she had was quite different than he let on ie. no sex. Still, you asked for experience, this was mine. Who knows if yours will be different. It could be.
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