Maybe you really should ask for you all to slow down? If the pace is making you feel you are missing something and are being left out even though you know you aren't I would think that you need to catch up with your self more than anything. I don't know what your schedule is with this woman, perhaps its just a free for all right now, but perhaps you should arrange to only see her a couple of times a week for a bit so that you may get about doing every day stuff and doing things that you would of normally done. It might help you feel less swept away in the moment. The others would do well to follow your lead. There is no rush here, so why not build every moment rather than frantically grasp at it as it seems you might be doing at the moment.
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