Originally Posted by Senga
My experience with polyamory has been ideally more focussed on the emotional, mental, personality, and attraction relationship aspects, with sex coming after.
Yes. That is where I am. For him, right now, it is about sexual fulfillment right now. If something deeper grows for him and a girl, great. But right now, he's just focused on experiencing new and different things.
We understand that we are looking for different things though and are wrapping our minds around that.