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Old 11-06-2009, 02:45 AM
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Ceoli, thanks for the link. Good read.

RP, I thought after I wrote all that, of course, you and Mono have a similar situation. I mean, you're married and he's monogamous with you. His needs seem to be met so...

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As long as you don't have expectations that you receive that title in return and keep yourself from being used or hurt because of it, then why not.
I definitely don't have expectations and he meets so many of my needs. The more I explore what's going on for me, I am realizing that it has absolutely nothing to do with him or the nature of our relationship. Old wounds are resurfacing and bringing a lot of sadness.

Not sure where to put the sadness or what else to do other than just recognize it's there. I need to reread that thread that River posted.

...I feel like Dora Carrington and her love for Lytton Strachey. Carrington, very good movie.
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