Originally Posted by nycindie
Well, that stands to reason since you only are in the one primary relationship. When you are in an additional relationship, you will determine/negotiate boundaries with that person. Can't really create boundaries for other relationships until the people show up in your life and ask for certain considerations.
Very true. We've never had a real poly relationship before so we just want to make sure we don't make the same mistakes we did ten months ago with our now ex-best friend. I sure as hell wish I'd taken the time and slowed the hell down but was so wrapped up in NRE and the fact none of us really knew what we were doing and didn't know anything about Poly. All I knew was I loved two women at the same time and thought 'what the hell is wrong with me?' Anyway, not going to keep babbling as that's not what this thread is about!