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Old 11-28-2011, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted by Storm View Post
Currently only have my primary relationship, but I would agree completely. The only boundaries we have discussed having in the future are boundaries that will protect our relationship.
Well, that stands to reason since you only are in the one primary relationship. When you are in an additional relationship, you will determine/negotiate boundaries with that person. Can't really create boundaries for other relationships until the people show up in your life and ask for certain considerations.
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