thanks a lot everyone!!!!you were a big help!!!
I decided that for now I have something good going on with S. and I don't feel like it is the right time to tell him. I will eventually when the time is right and we are both more secure in are relationships. And for V. I don't really know what to do cause he keep sending deferent signals on moment he want to sleep with me and the next he says he only feels a deep friendship for me.
So I will not risk my relationship for someone who I love but is indisive and I can't blame him for him he should not have feelings for my cause I am in a relationships. So I think I will just let things go and see what happens and when things will be right I will talk to S.
Ange of faith